Relationships Thread

You were the one in the LDR weren't you? Distance just prove too big a hurdle?

I am also now single.

1>3>4>2 wrote:
Igor wrote:I am also now single.

How'd it go down? She do soul searching and the like?

Nah, she found out that I kissed another girl while drunk. I dun goofed big time.

Sorry dude.

Yeah, I hate myself right now. I think she'd be open to a big romantic gesture to fix things, but I honestly believe that at the moment, she's better off without me until I get my own gooseberry fool in order. We'll see.

lol

Were you not erring on the side of dumping her anyway?

Skiin'f wrote:Were you not erring on the side of dumping her anyway?

Kind of. There was nothing wrong with her, I was just in a funk and wasn't sure if I wanted to be in a relationship at all. I then realised how good I had it and decided to stop being a dick to her. Everything seemed okay.

Until by shitty coincidence, she ended up meeting a friend of the girl in question one night and it all, somehow, came out. I can't even use the 'we were on a break' excuse, because we weren't at the time.

Damn that's rough. gooseberry fool move by you but still, unlucky.

BobbyDigital wrote:
Phatman wrote:
Parksey wrote:She's likely just wanting some attention, or perhaps some control at the moment - if she's just been through a break-up.

Without sounding harsh, you'd probably be the equivalent of a night in in your pyjamas, eating junk food and watching Bridget Jones. And we've all been there, haven't we fellas?

It might not necessarily be only a case of wanting what she can't have, but by seeing things through "break-up goggles". You don't really need her messing with you and your new relationship at this time. She made it clear how she felt before, so you might as well enjoy being in a relationship with a girl who has wanted to be with you.

Just my advice, and I'm no Love Doctor or anything. In fact, due to a recent court case I've been banned from ever practicing my street therapy again.

Well that's the way I'm playing in anyway. As angry as I became, after other mixed emotions initially, I'll give her the benefit of the doubt. I'm just hoping for some radio silence from her for a bit, hopefully till a later date where it won't be so awkward. She could have had me anytime in the last year before August, even if I'd known I was just a comfort jumper!

Merry Falsemas wrote:Maybe she just wants to rattle your bones?

If you have only just started seeing this other chick, why not oblige her? Two poon is better than one poon. Thats calculus.

My penis agrees with you, but my head reminds my penis that it would be wrong and that also, from a practical poon perspective, if caught I would no longer have a regular source of poon.

@ trying to justify any decision on the basis of regular 'poon'

Do what the strawberry float you want, don't be tied down to chick and make decisions based off getting regular sex brah! If you don't want to cheat on your girlfriend then that's kool yeah, you don't have to cheat!

Agree

Skiin'f wrote:You were the one in the LDR weren't you? Distance just prove too big a hurdle?

Yup.

Oh strawberry float. My girlfriend is pregnant. We just found out about half an hour ago (I tried to quick to GRcade it but felt a strange need to comfort her first, my apologies).

This is not good. We're not ready and we're simply not in the right circumstances to go through with it. I can't tell anyone in real life so need to vent on here.

PostRe: The ' Romantic Relationship' Thread by HM » Sun Dec 08, 2013 9:21 pm

I just came in to this topic and it says you posted that 20 seconds ago... feels weird thinking I am probably the first person to know.

A lot of responsibility on my advice-giving shoulders. It sounds weird to say this - and obviously it is an issue that will require a lot of thought - but you wont be thinking clearly now as you're in shock, so I would just get that out of your system first before you make any big decisions.

Also I have just watched the episode of Friends where Rachel has a baby so I am totally read to bear the advice-giving weight.

you fully strawberry floated up now son

All I ask is that you call it Steve, in honour of your new hero.

Oblomov Boblomov wrote:Oh strawberry float. My girlfriend is pregnant. We just found out about half an hour ago (I tried to quick to GRcade it but felt a strange need to comfort her first, my apologies).

This is not good. We're not ready and we're simply not in the right circumstances to go through with it. I can't tell anyone in real life so need to vent on here.

You dun goofed

Relationships Thread

Who is online

Affiliates