Sure, let's get back to discussing real relationships and issues and not some bullshit made up stories on the spot.
-Understand what a pathological liar is. Basically, a pathological liar is someone who tells lies habitually, chronically and compulsively. It has simply become a way of life for this person, to make up things for a variety of reasons and eventually, the truth becomes uncomfortable while weaving whoppers feels right to them. This kind of lying tends to develop early on in life, often as a response to difficult home or school situations that seemed to resolve better if the child lied. It's a bad habit, not a manipulative trait––this is how to differentiate a pathological liar from a sociopath who does seek to manipulate
-Determine whether the person’s details and information comes across as consistent every time they tell a story. Find an easy, run-of-the-mill story, such as what the person had for dinner last night. They may tell you pasta and broccoli, but then may tell you and/or others that lobster and champagne was involved. Details and information will constantly change and evolve. •Compare and contrast both big and small details. From the number of people in the liar’s story to the actual storyline itself, recall what has changed and how often the details have changed in the story. •Keep tally of the cast of characters involved in the story. If, for example, suddenly the third time the story is told, the cops show up, you have to start wondering if he or she is telling the full truth. •Recall the frequency of the lies. Pathological liars will lie consistently, which is one thing you can count on––they will lie all the time. Conduct a non-scientific experiment and inquire about certain aspects of the person’s life everyday. Choose something random like what the person ate for dinner or watched on TV the evening before. Ask the person the same question throughout the day to see if it changes––play into the lie by either getting excited or showing intrigue when the person embellishes the story. Don't give away that you've heard a different answer before.
-Consider whether the person is lying to gain attention. Part of the reason the pathological liar feels compelled to lie is because he or she may feel as though being in the spotlight has eluded them. This person feels that he or she should be the center of everyone’s universe and will do what he or she can to make it happen. Upon tasting the spotlight, it becomes self-reinforcing and the lies grow bigger each time just to keep on being the center of attention. Here are some possibilities: •Sympathy attention. The pathological liar feels that his or her problems are paramount to what everyone else is experiencing. From a paper cut to being admonished by a boss or teacher, the pathological liar runs around telling his or her story to anyone and everyone, exaggerating the details to ridiculous proportions in order to gain sympathy from anyone within earshot. •Wants to feel important. The pathological liar is the king or queen of the “one upper.” Whatever accomplishment you’ve achieved, they done it better. This person always has to feel superior to you at all times, no matter if it’s in the professional or personal arena. •Feels bored. Unfortunately, because this person’s life is not rooted in reality, he or she may become easily bored if drama is not swirling around his or her head. As a result, lies may be fabricated in order to amuse or entertain this person, which unfortunately means that other people become involved and possibly hurt as a result. •Insecurity. Low self esteem is one of the biggest reasons why people become pathological liars. Whether they consciously recognize it or not, a pathological liar feels that he or she is not important enough as they are so they must make up accomplishments or events to position themselves as worthy.
-Look to whether the person has an addiction or secret habits that are potentially harmful. Pathological lying can arise in tandem with wanting to hide an alcoholic or drug addiction, an obsession with doing something too much such as spending time online or gaming, or in relation to a medical condition such as bulimia or anorexia. Therapy, group counseling and other professional interventions are important for such people but it may help you to better understand such lying if you know about the motivation behind it. •Part of the therapy needs to address compulsive lying. A compulsive liar can be changed. •There may be other personality disorders at issue, such as narcissistic personality disorder, bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder
Falsey in a nutshell.
From now every story you say needs to be backed up with a video and a diary .
''Saying it's because I was controlling you and making you sad when actually I just asked you to wear some trousers''
Why are you so fixated on what I say, anyway? If I am truly lying, then surely what I say is of little meaning or importance to your life?
And if I am lying, then surely my knowledge of the subjects at hand would be way out of whack? As it is, I know vaginas taste like custard and that you put condoms over your balls to stop the man juice coming out.
I dont know why you are so hung up on what I say or do. I dont think its jealousy. Maybe you just cant believe than an average (I say average, what I mean is funny, intelligent, beautiful and loaded) dude can nail as many women as he wants with the proper application of technique and pressure.
But, as Ive said before, you believe what you want to believe, be that all or nothing of what I say. Ill carry on living my life, not really giving a gooseberry fool what Derek might think about it. Hakuna matata.
Well, when you start saying gooseberry fool like ''be a real man'' then followed up by a massive lie then yes I will call you on it. I don't have a problem with liars but I do have an issue with liars that want to make gooseberry fool up in every decent thread.
Shakazulu
''Saying it's because I was controlling you and making you sad when actually I just asked you to wear some trousers''
Dude, I didnt start that real man gooseberry fool. Someone else implied that by engaging with a chick who already had a fella you were somehow less of a man. I dont think I followed it with a lie either. I say to you now, as Ive said before, Ill be nothing but honest and truthful on here. What do I have to gain from lying?
Enough people on here know me in real life to call me up on any gooseberry fool I may be spouting. As it is, some of them have seen me at work, and some of them have seen the product of my work. In fact, Im fairly certain Ive posted photos and videos in this and other threads. Im sure I was banned for some last time.
Im almost certain I said 'real man'. A lot of you are acting like real insecure butt babies. Im sure if you all treat your ladies right then you dont have to worry about horrible banana splits like me stealing her away.
You can't steal a candy let alone human being that is thinking straight. The only think you steal is the stories you tell. You should be a writer, tell fairy tales .
''Saying it's because I was controlling you and making you sad when actually I just asked you to wear some trousers''
