Relationships Thread

[False]

Just tell someone you are going out and if you dont call the following morning you have been murdered.

Seriously.

[Gario]

That's good for you, Grindr is primarily a hook-up service, as you know, but you seem to have found someone who isn't just after a one-night stand.

[Corazon de Leon]

I really wish I'd slept around when I was younger. But I was socially retarded, didn't know how to dress and didn't know any girls

I know that feel.

[No:1 Final Fantasy Fan]

Just tell someone you are going out and if you dont call the following morning you have been murdered.

Seriously.

haha very funny...not lol. Theres been a few times where I have been tempted to meet a hot middle aged guy for a hook up. But my gut feeling told me not to plus coz these guys only want a hook up and don't seem genuine and also I don't think I'm ready for that kind of thing.

That's good for you, Grindr is primarily a hook-up service, as you know, but you seem to have found someone who isn't just after a one-night stand.

Hmm yeah but officially its called a "dating app" lol. Thanks your right though I think I really have found someone who isn't just after a one night stand. He's a bit younger than me 20 and I'm 26 but don't think that matters once you get to 20 i think you tend to have enough life experience to keep up with each other. So it won't be like talking to a much younger person.
Been talking to some other guys too that seem nice.
One just wants to meet up to hang out coz he's already seeing someone. Apparently he remembers me from high school where i was a few years above him lol.
Also been chatting to a 31yo guy, again he's not mentioned sex and just genuinely chats. He also lives in my area so I could easily meet him soon.
And theres been one more guy who wants to meet me for a drink, again he has never talked about sex lol and even knows one of my friends from primary school. But I dunno if I fancy him enough to meet yet because I know he wants to be more than friends...
Also since I'm meeting this guy tomorrow, i feel a bit guilty chatting to other guys to arrange meet ups incase this guy genuinely wants to date, maybe I do too depending on how it goes lol.

Seems to be going well for me lately. I am surprised though that grindr is working so well whereas "plenty of fish" sucks haven't managed to chat to more than 1 or 2 people on there.

[False]

I wasnt joking

[No:1 Final Fantasy Fan]

I wasnt joking

u were...

how is it different to chatting to someone u never met before in a bar and then going home to theirs for the night? just because its grindr/online doesn't mean theres gonna be murderers out there, this isn't not a hollywood film.

[False]

Whats to say he doesnt roofie you?

If you get hogtied and raped, I hope you remember I told you so.

[Shadow]

Have you met anyone yet N1FFF?

You seem to be doing a lot of deliberating.

[1cmanny1]

I want your watch when you die.

[No:1 Final Fantasy Fan]

Have you met anyone yet N1FFF?

You seem to be doing a lot of deliberating.

not yet this one will be my first ever. probably why i've done so much deliberating just inexperienced and nervous.

[Fatal Exception]

You should treat it like when you ask for advice on here.
"Hey guys shall I strawberry float this guy who's blatantly bad for me?"
"No"
"Hey guys I strawberry floated the guy and told him I loved him but he left me straight after and stole my wallet and now I have AIDs."

[Holpil]

You should treat it like when you ask for advice on here.
"Hey guys shall I strawberry float this guy who's blatantly bad for me?"
"No"
"Hey guys I strawberry floated the guy and told him I loved him but he left me straight after and stole my wallet and now I have AIDs."

What a banana split, that wallet alone cost over 200 pan.

[Kezzer]

Remember. Always wear sunglasses indoors.

[No:1 Final Fantasy Fan]

[Buffalo]

I think it's pretty wise to let someone know where you're going dude, Falsey is right.
You never know, right?

[1cmanny1]

That really depends if you are a girl, and are going somewhere that isn't public.

[Shadow]

Have you met anyone yet N1FFF?

You seem to be doing a lot of deliberating.

not yet this one will be my first ever. probably why i've done so much deliberating just inexperienced and nervous.

I'd worry that you're waiting for the perfect guy. You don't want your first time to be with someone you actually care about. You've never sucked a dick, never bummed, you're gonna be a bit gooseberry fool at both of those things. You want to practice with some throwaway guys before you find "The One".

Also, wear a condom when bumming.

[No:1 Final Fantasy Fan]

what about when people go for one night stands after a night out? they don't tell people where their going be it if they are a guy or a girl?
thanks for your concerns though.
we are just meeting for a drink in town in a big well known bar in day time haha

That really depends if you are a girl, and are going somewhere that isn't public.

yeah exactly thanks

Will also probably bump into someone else i know but even though I haven't told my friends I'm gay yet i doubt they'd think that but don't care if people know anyway.

[No:1 Final Fantasy Fan]

Have you met anyone yet N1FFF?

You seem to be doing a lot of deliberating.

not yet this one will be my first ever. probably why i've done so much deliberating just inexperienced and nervous.

I'd worry that you're waiting for the perfect guy. You don't want your first time to be with someone you actually care about. You've never sucked a dick, never bummed, you're gonna be a bit gooseberry fool at both of those things. You want to practice with some throwaway guys before you find "The One".

Also, wear a condom when bumming.

o right thanks. i was originally waiting for the perfect guy but not anymore. as long as they are nice looking and chat a little bit then i wouldn't mind driving over for a bit of fun.
thx

[1cmanny1]

Also PM Gario, he is single now.